extremesamgirl:

dean’s violence is always justified and/or excused by the fandom (”he is grieving/hurting/ that’s how he shows he cares/ he is worried/well he is right anyway so sam/cas/whoever can take that punch, it’s well deserved”) but the second sam or cas dares to do a percent of the shit dean does, suddenly everyone is breathing down their necks and they are vilified by both the fandom and narrative for ~being in the wrong~

and i’m so tired of this shit.