Tag: non spn

Tagged by the wonderful @thewinchestersgrimm 🙂 ❤

1. nicknames – Gilbs, occosionally. And sometimes giraffe (that one was supplied by myself though lol)

2. gender – female

3. star sign – Gemini

4. height – 5′9″

5. time – 8:01 pm

6. birthday – in June

7. favorite bands? – Imagine Dragons, Pentatonix, Of Monsters and Men, Oh Wonder

8. favorite solo artists? – Luke Bryan, Maren Morris, Jon Bellion, 

9. song stuck in my head? – Boys and Buses from the Nashville soundtrack

10. last movie you watched? – Beauty and the Beast! the new one which they just put on Netflix and im obsessed again

11. last show you watched? – Nashville

12. when did you create your blog? – I’m pretty sure it was 2013? 

13. what do i post? – Literally all SPN all the time, 90% of which is Jared/Sam

14. last thing i googled? – my bus route

15. do you have any other blogs? – I have several side blogs for my other tv shows (i hardly post on them though), one for a band (i used to be really active on it but i’m not anymore) and then an aesthetic sideblog, which is mainly just stuff i thought looked pretty, quotes, etc. I’ve been meaning to get a photography blog started for a while now but havent done it.

16. do you get asks? – very rarely

17. why did you choose your url? – cause i loove boyking!sam 

18. following? – 380

19. followers? – 929

20. favorite colors? – turqouise and purple

21. average hours of sleep? – like 6? ish

22. lucky number? – 13

23. instruments? – I used to play the flute, and i used to love it but then i was in my high school band and they were kind of really serious and i was not about it

24. what am i wearing? – leggings and TWLOA tank top 🙂

25. how many blankets do you sleep with? – Just one fuzzy one

26. dream job? – no idea. Really. Is there a job where i can get paid with just petting dogs? or horses. That would be it

27. dream trip? – Going to Italy and exploring the cities and seeing the ruins and going to museums to see the artwork

28. favorite fruit? – green apples or wild raspberries 

29. nationality? – American

30. favorite song right now? – Waking up the Giants by Gizfolk

I’m tagging @mjolnirsammy @heavenlysams and @brothersloverssoulmates ! But if anyone else wants to do this just say i tagged you 

Tagged by Chris Hemsworth’s biggest fan @mjolnirsammy 😉

Tagging @thewinchestersgrimm @acewinchesters @willingwinchester & literally anyone else who wants to do it, just say that i tagged you:)


5 things you’d find in my bag:

  • my phone
  • My earbuds (except for the days where I forget them which are no fun)
  • Sunglasses
  • Snacks
  • Water bottle

5 things you’d find in my bedroom:

  • my Jared photo ops 💜 (right next to my pillow lol)
  • Pics of my horse
  • (Fake) plants
  • A little figurine of a giraffe lol
  • String lights

5 things i’ve always wanted to do:

  • own a dog
  • Go to Italy (or travel abroad in general really)
  • Hug Jared (yes I’ve already done but I wanna do it again :p )
  • Learn photoshop well enough to have my own photography business
  • Get tattoos

5 things that make me happy:

  • my pets (animals in general really but esp mine)
  • Jared Padalecki
  • Warm sunny days
  • Driving on an empty road with the music turned up and the windows rolled down
  • All my spn friends like I’ve met so many amazing people bc of this show and some I’ve never met in person and some I’ve only met for a day or two but were as close as my irl friends?? It’s amazing

5 things i’m currently into:

  • water color paint/calligraphy
  • The songs brother by kodaline and night moves
  • fall weather
  • My AKF gear, I’ve been wearing them almost constantly recently
  • A good study session? Which is weird but like my campus’ library is huge and perfect to get into a good headspace to study/work

5 things on my to-do list:

  • my homework (lmao ended up on tumblr after trying to start it what else is new)
  • Cleaning my room
  • Can sleep count?
  • Stop spending money on fast food (I have no self control someone help me)
  • Spend more time appreciating what I have and the people in my life

aloeplantt:

does anyone else have those moments where they just fall in love with being alive? like, maybe you’re in art class with soft music and you realize that this peaceful feeling is a part of life that you love and you want to just keep forever, and there are so many other parts of life too that are so wonderful and maybe existing isnt so bad after all

doomedbrothers:

doomedbrothers:

if anyone has been wanting to get one of these lovely hoodies, now is the perfect time! TWLOHA is celebrating its 11th birthday (!!) and is offering 25% off in their store with the code BIRTHDAY25. Valid today and tomorrow (3/30). I know that since Jared wore the green one, it’s become a bit popular in the fandom. It’s a great hoodie (literally the softest one I own) and a great organization. You can find them here (: 

Ignore the code above, but I thought I’d reblog this since there’s currently a new two day 25% off code! (valid 8/28-8/29)
Use IWASMADEFOR at checkout (:

It’s taboo to admit that you’re lonely. You can make jokes about it, of course. You can tell people that you spend most of your time with Netflix or that you haven’t left the house today and you might not even go outside tomorrow. Ha ha, funny. But rarely do you ever tell people about the true depths of your loneliness, about how you feel more and more alienated from your friends each passing day and you’re not sure how to fix it. It seems like everyone is just better at living than you are.

…A part of you knew this was going to happen. Growing up, you just had this feeling that you wouldn’t transition well to adult life, that you’d fall right through the cracks. And look at you now. La di da, it’s happening.

Every day you vow to change some aspect of your life and every day you fail. At this point, you’re starting to question your own power as a human being. As of right now, your fears have you beat. They’re the ones that are holding your twenties hostage.

Stop thinking that everyone is having more sex than you, that everyone has more friends than you, that everyone out is having more fun than you. Not because it’s not true (it might be!) but because that kind of thinking leaves you frozen. You’ve already spent enough time feeling like you’re stuck, like you’re watching your life fall through you like a fast dissolve and you’re unable to hold on to anything.

I don’t know if you ever get better. I don’t know if a person can just wake up one day and decide to be an active participant in their life. I’d like to think so. I’d like to think that people get better each and every day but that’s not really true. People get worse and it’s their stories that end up getting forgotten because we can’t stand an unhappy ending. The sick have to get better. Our normalcy depends upon it.

You have to value yourself. You have to want great things for your life. This sort of sh*t doesn’t happen overnight but it can and will happen if you want it.

Do you want it bad enough? Does the fear of being filled with regret in your thirties trump your fear of living today?

We shall see.

Ryan O’Connell (via thequotejournals)

theartoftransliness:

theskaldspeaks:

triflesandparsnips:

floozycaucus:

How do you (“how does one”) shop for a therapist?

Can you call up a therapist and be like “hi, I’m therapist shopping”? Can you schedule an appointment with a therapist and then be like “actually I have some questions and I want to spend part of this appointment talking about your practice and whether or not it is garbage?”? Are you expected to phone interview/screen your therapists if you are shopping around for a therapist?

If you’re seeing one therapist are you supposed to/not supposed to tell them if you start seeing another therapist? Is it possible to cheat on your therapist?

I know this one! Or, at least, I know a way to do it, because I’ve done it.

1) When you call them up (or email them, which I prefer, because PHONE, EW), you ask if they’re taking new patients.

2) If they say yes, say something along the lines of “Great! I’m looking for a new therapist. Would it be possible for me to schedule an appointment so we can see whether we’d be a good fit for one another?”

  • IF THEY SAY NO, THEY DON’T DO ‘INTERVIEWS’: they’re a dick, you don’t want them anyway, don’t bother to make an appointment

3) Assuming everything is a go, head over to the appointment. Bring your notebook, pen, and questions. Also, if possible, have a very brief rundown prepared of what you’d like to accomplish with your therapy (or even what you think your biggest issues are).

4) Introduce yourself. Reiterate that you want to see if the two of you would be a good fit, so [a nice little social laugh or smile here, while holding up your notebook] you brought questions.

  • IF THEY DON’T LIKE THAT: they’re a dick, you don’t want them anyway, cut the meeting short

5) Give the rundown of what you want, what your issues are, whatever. See how they react.

  • IF YOU FEEL WEIRD AT ALL ABOUT THEM: they may not be a dick, but if you don’t feel comfortable with them, then it’s going to be a shit therapeutic relationship

6) Ask your questions — about their therapeutic approach, why they entered the field, whether they feel comfortable working with *your* needs (I, for instance, specifically told my awesome therapist that I needed her to tell me absolutely nothing about her personal life or experiences — as much as possible, I needed a blank wall to bounce things off of. It’s been years now, and I THINK she’s seen at least a couple of episodes of Doctor Who. I THINK. That’s all I’ve got. It’s amazing).

  • AGAIN, IF YOU FEEL WEIRD ABOUT THEM: go with your gut — your therapy is not the time or place to try and soldier through

7) By this point, you’ve probably hit the 45 minute mark, and you’ll know if you want to see this person again.

  • IF YES, say that this was a really great meeting, and you’d like to set up a regular appointment.
  • IF NO, say “Thanks for meeting with me.” If it wasn’t too terrible, feel free to add in whatever social niceties you want to lessen the blow (“I have appointments with a few other people, still, but thank you again!”), or you could just skedaddle as soon as possible.
  • IF YOU’RE NOT SURE, go a bit heavier with the social nicety: “I still have appointments with a few other people, but I really enjoyed our meeting. I’ll let you know as soon as possible if I’d like to schedule another one. Thanks again!”

Regarding current therapists: If they’re toxic, get rid of ‘em before you even start interviewing others. Nobody needs that kind of garbage. Otherwise, you could keep seeing them while you interview others, and then the second you find one you like (and you schedule your next appointment), get rid of your current one. You don’t have to say why — just say that you’d like to cancel future appointments. Do it over email, if you want. If you like them, you can tell them that you just need something different now, but that you “really appreciate all the work we’ve done together” or something. If you don’t like them, just cancel. They don’t need to know jack.

  • IF YOUR CURRENT THERAPIST SAYS SHIT ABOUT YOUR LEAVING — and I mean anything other than a positive hope for you in the future — then they were a dick and you were right to find someone else. Who needs passive-aggressive bullshit from a therapist? Nobody, that’s who.

So that’s my philosophy/style with regard to therapist shopping — I may be completely wrong, but it’s worked for me so far. Good luck!

This is really good advice

Yes, very good advice!

jolivaurien:

Idpol around mental illnesses is terrifying, there’s legit kids on this website who are purposely keeping themselves the most miserable they can so they can get some tumblr.com cred in discourse and that’s super fucked up. Neurodivergent activism in this website really need to be rethinked because this anti-recovery, anti-wellness, “healthy coping mechanism? we can’t all be neurotypical karen” bullshit is legitimately harmful.